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Washington 2014: The Beginning of a Journey in Empowerment - Minahil Shahid

10/15/2014

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Hi, my name is Minahil and I’m from Pakistan. It’s almost been a month since I’ve returned to my home country after attending the Andi Leadership Institute Program and my time in Washington D.C. feels like a dream. When I look back at the three amazing weeks I spent, I think about the friends I’ve made, the organizations I’ve visited, the support I’ve gained and the training I’ve received. In short, my time in Washington D.C. proved to be a hands-on experience in conflict management (and way beyond) that will remain a source of guidance for me for the rest of my life!

In one of the first workshops of the seminar, I learned about the concept of ‘shared vulnerability’, a fear that every individual in a group has of saying something that others might not find to be truthful or valuable. By addressing these fears right at the start of the program, our facilitator, Noah Bopp, helped create a sense of togetherness and put us all on the same platform, a platform on which we learned to empathize with the person sitting next to us. We learned that we were all here to learn and that learning could only happen in an environment of trust and mutual respect.

We also had regular check-ins and check-outs through the program where we could describe to others how we were feeling. This activity helped each of us become more receptive to others and led to the building of a cogent group. Yes, we were indeed a very cogent group. It felt like I was part of a buzzing ball of energy, something so alive that it could take on anything in its path. It is the sense of ownership that we all had which made our group so special. Although we were from different cultures, the diversity added, rather than subtracted, from the power we felt as a team.

Some of my most memorable experiences from the program include giving a speech to Lissa Muscatine, Hillary Clinton’s former speechwriter, who not only appreciated, but also critiqued our speeches to show to us how speechwriting is a dedicated process that has its rights and wrongs. Meeting Rachel Maddow and watching her prepare for her show allowed me to witness an entire process of debating ideas, elucidating their relevance, making connections and presenting them as words of action. I also learned how work can demand one to be spontaneous and the ability to adapt and improvise can take one a long way. Maddow, who had prepared material on a set of issues for that night’s show, had to scratch out most of it and incorporate news on the sudden death of Robin Williams. Watching her be so open to making changes to the script and take charge of the situation was very inspirational.

Moreover, we also went to the U.S. State Department and presented a memo where we identified areas of conflict in our countries and recommended solutions. These solutions involved sharing knowledge about any initiatives, big and small, which we thought could be made more valuable through support. This was yet another challenging but exciting experience as it allowed us as young female leaders to give weight to our knowledge and actions.

At the final ceremony as we wrapped up our ALI journey, I realized that the biggest lesson I learned from this program is that my choices have consequences, sometimes even halfway across the world. Jaime and Kim’s initiative to start the Andi Leadership Institute Program is kind of like a bigger Capstone version of our eight mini-Capstones and if they have been able to make me realize how much potential I possess to bring effective, positive change, then I can also keep the cycle of empowerment going! This gets me so excited, as I know there are fifteen other young female peace builders alongside myself who are thinking in the same way and the prospect of being connected to them (and all those that follow us) will get me to witness all the amazing things they do in their lives. I can thus safely conclude my blog by saying that this is indeed not the end of ALI; it is only just the beginning! 

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Azeem
10/15/2014 06:48:32 am

Minahil you've done a great job and have made us all proud here in Pakistan!
I could sense the maturity and depth of the experiences you had after your return. People like you need to represent Pakistan more often - good luck!

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Aamir Gulzar
10/21/2014 12:43:05 am

Well done Minahil for the zest you have shown to go thru the training program. We are proud of you as this makes you a role model for future generation in our family. Remember whatever you do in life teamwork is the key to success.

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Muradanjum Anjum
10/15/2014 06:16:38 pm

i find it quite an independent thought, with imagination and a flare to excell . It's a good experience for youngsters from third world countries to have an opportunity to sit, discuss and work together without any limitation of Religion, borders or similar other factors.. They should concentrate to fill the gap between different school of thoughts , highlighting the Humanity which is a common cause.

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Jamie Aron
11/1/2014 12:46:37 pm

Minahil,

Wow!! I'm always so amazed at the power behind your words.

I think about ALI everyday and the many things I learned from being in your presence. This really is the beginning, and I'm so thankful to know that I'm a part of a team that surpasses international borders!

Miss you dearly,
Jamie

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Minahil
11/4/2014 05:24:06 am

Thank you everyone for your love and support, and especially for taking out the time to read my blog and comment. Appreciate it! :)

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Walter Walsh link
10/10/2022 01:57:30 pm

We also had regular check-ins and check-outs through the program where we could describe to others how we were feeling. This activity helped each of us become more receptive to others and led to the building of a cogent group. Thank you for the beautiful post!

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TS Massage Wales link
10/26/2022 09:50:56 am

Great postt

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